Pause and Speak
January 20th, 2025 (14 days ago) • 1 minute

a bird that I drew months ago, now on the wall
Allow people to speak.
Pause and think.
Think and speak.
1 or 2 seconds is usually enough.
Let them speak more than you.
Ask them to explain, not for you to justify.
Ask to tell you more.
That's the standard for conversation.